Travel Journal - We're Home!
Hey Everyone We are HOME!!
Let me tell you that the reuniting with the boys was marvelous, and they
have taken Taya into their hearts totally. It is just amazing to see the
love our family has for her and her love for us. Our transition into home
life was very difficult. Not that Taya was unhappy, in fact she is perfect
in every way. She never cries unless she is tired or hungry, and is very
content playing in whatever area I am working in. If I have spent too much
time wrapped up in my own thing, she lets me know by tugging on my leg and
then I know it is play time. She absolutely loves to have me read books to
her and as soon as I sit down and hold a book she crawls over to me and pops
up right onto my lap to be read to!! She is scooting on her bottom all over
the place at a very good pace and easily pulls herself up on
everything.&nb! sp; She also has conqurered the flight of steps all the
way to the top. Coming down is another issue! Sometimes she has caught
herself standing up for a few seconds on her own and then remembers she has
never done that and sits down quick. Too funny! She is really beginning to
understand when we talk to her. She knows where the fish is, where the light
is, where is mommy,daddy,dustin,jonah,she can say "duck" (it's in
a picture she likes to point to in our bedroom) Imagine telling her someday
her first word was duck!! ( : Her grandpa Oberloh will like that!! Those
juicy kisses are still coming and the hugs are just huggable!! She has
brightened up our lives to an extent that can't be explained!! The Lord's
guidance on this is/was remarkable!! We did go through 2 weeks that were
really difficult with the sleep issue. Her times were all mixed up, and I
did not get anywhere near a full nights sleep for at least 8-9 days.! Two
hours was the most I got at one time, and the nights consisted of a child
that was very mixed up, and I take a big part of the blame in that. The
reason is because we right away began putting her in her crib to go to
sleep. She absolutely didn't like that. When it got to the point of
"What do we do?", we did the one thing that we really didn't want
to do, and that was put her in our bed with us. Her sleeping got better, but
it was no where near a regular night's sleep, and we needed something else.
Well, I talked to a friend of mine, Shelly, who is soon to be traveling to
China to get her own daughter. She informed me that she read that Chinese
people many times all sleep in one room together since space is so little.
We decided to pull the port a bed into our room, just like she slept with us
in China, and try that. Well, it worked, and we were down to only 2-3 times
up a night. After much work, she is now falling asleep in her own crib and
sleeping a full 11 hours through the night. She is a very restless sleeper,
and having her sleeping a little bit away from me where we can't hear every
move and noise has been so much better. The last 4 nights she has slept
completely through the night!! Praise the Lord!! She is so darn cute!! ( :
Taya has also already attended 8 hockey games to cheer on her brothers, and
is going to go with us to our first tournament this weekend for an
overnight. Transition to a little toddler into a home that was totally
mobile was quite an adjustment!! Not bad, but just having to rethink how
things are going to be done needed to be rethought and adjusted!! You just
don't go into the laundry room/dog's domain to do laundry without thinking
about how to keep Taya away from mauling them!! She absolutely loves them,
and they are very good with her. Our family is looking forward to Christmas
time although I haven't begun to do the shopping and the only thing up we
have is the tree!! When will we get everything done?? This trip of a
lifetime was highlighted this last Sunday with Taya being baptized at our
church. Being a 1 year old she was very active while being baptized, but the
look she gave the minister as he put the water on her head was quite
interesting. She was looking at him like "what do you think you are
doing?".!!! He also held her for our benediction at the end and she
just stared at him as he held his hands up to bless the church family!! So
cute!! We are excited to teach Taya about the Lord and the unbelievable love
He has for us!! Once again, thank you for all of the emails and well wishes.
If you happen to just check the site over some other time, drop us another
email. We would love to hear from you. Or, if there is someone out there
that is interested in possibly adopting a child I would be more than willing
to correspond with you. My personal email is myoberloh@yahoo.com. We have a
beautiful daughter, and we thank the Lord with all our hearts!!
Dana, Amy, Dustin, Jonah, and Sweetheart Taya ( :



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Scripture
& Poetry
For
ye are all the children of God by faith in Christ Jesus
Galatians
3:26
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Not
flesh of my flesh
Nor
bone of my bone
But
still miraculously my own
Never
forget
for a
single minute
You
didn’t grow
under
my heart
But in
it
*Fleur
Conkling Heylinger
~
For ye have not
received the spirit of bondage again to
fear; but ye have received the spirit of adoption, whereby we
cry, Abba, Father!
Romans
8:15
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